I know exactly what you mean. Tywin is one of my favourite characters, and it's a pity that his relationships with the people closest to him (Joanna and Kevan) are so rarely explored in fic. You had no reason to be nervous about this. If you ever write more about these two, I'd love to read it. :)
Re: FILL: Tywin/Joanna, dominance - "The Flint and the Flame"; NC-17 (Part Two)